Re-invent Your Sex Life - Tips from Michael Webb books

Re-invent Your Sex Life

Tips on Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend or Wife Back

Ok so you have got her to agree to a “make up date”, your heartfelt and sincere apology has been accepted, she has agreed to give you one more chance and finally, the cherry on top – has accepted your suggestion of “coffee” at your place.

Moving on from that first “reunion” date, take time for each other whenever possible. Get the idea out of your heads that sex must happen at night in the bedroom. Pretend you are teenagers dating and if you get the opportunity to be intimate with your partner, take it!

Take time out to be romantic again as if you were in the first stages of your relationship. Do all the things you used to take for granted before like opening the car door for her, sending her flowers or surprising her with her favorite meal, delivered in person at lunch time or spontaneously arrive with the meal on her doorstep. It’s the little things that count.

We all know that women are hard to read, saying no when they mean yes, saying they are fine when they’re not and cry for just about any reason under the sun – so approach with caution, listen to what she is saying because they always provide subtle hints to what it is they really do what.

Keep your promises, especially if you have let her down before and whilst you don’t have to promise them the world, if you say you are going to call her back straight away then make sure you do. It is so important to keep your word. You have let her down with trust before, so if you don’t prove your trust with an issue as small as this, rest assured, there is no chance of gaining it in other more important areas.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. Discover all of Micheal Webb Books at the website.

Road Trips and Picnics -Tips from Michael Webb

Road Trips and Picnics

Banquet on a Blanket for Two

There is something to be said about leaving the city behind, getting away for a day, enjoying whatever beautiful views nature offers you, stuffing yourself silly and then lay back with a glass of wine or whatever liquid takes your fancy. When the sun is shining there's only one thing to do...and that is, go on a picnic. Now picnics are not only good for the happily involved but they are essential when trying to win her back! Obviously the weather plays an important part but remember, you can picnic both indoors and outdoors. All it takes is a little creative imagination.

The Romantic Picnic
Most importantly you must find a place that’s sheltered from the wind yet has a lovely view. Set the scene with candles or lanterns, and your loved one (yes her) will be eating out of the palm of your hand! For dinner include:

· Fresh, organic vegetables such as baby carrots, cucumber fingers, baby sweet corn, broccoli, cherry tomatoes and serve with dips such as guacamole, hummus or chopped tomato in cottage cheese, suggests planning and preparation and you can grill the vegetables beforehand for something a little different.

· Cold meats with cheeses such as Camembert and Brie also work well as snacks. The cheese can also be eaten with fruit or crackers.

· It’s always a good idea to stick to finger foods for romantic picnics; this way you can feed each other.

· For something more substantial, make a variety of wraps with cottage cheese and pineapple filling; and pita bread with stuffed with tuna salad, feta and avocado, or feta and carrot.

· A bottle of wine or bubbly makes it a special occasion, but remember to first check whether alcohol is allowed at your picnic spot of choice — and pack two of your prettiest glasses for the occasion.

· Round off your rendezvous with some decadent dark chocolate-tipped strawberries.

Although it seems as though this is a daunting task, and it really doesn’t have to be. A little planning beforehand can make you look like a pro and what better way to impress her than if you can honestly tell her you prepared it yourself. Certain foods are easy and quick to prepare such as cheese and crackers, muffins, grapes, strawberries (these always score big points for the romantic), chips and dips etc., always work well. Throw in a bottle of wine or some champagne or if going for something non-alcoholic - a chilled fresh fruit juice. When organizing your picnic basket the utensils you bring with are very important. Make sure you also pack enough blankets and pillows for extra comfort.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.Discover all of Michael Webb Books at the website.

Pampering Your Princess- Michael Webb Books - Getting her Back

Pampering Your Princess

Tips on Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend or Wife Back

Not one woman can resist the offer of a pamper session particularly if you choose the location and theme with “reconciliation in mind”. If you are serious about getting her back then you need to invest a little time researching a health and wellness club or spa close enough to your home town that allows for a drive of “mystique”. By this I mean that once you have located the ideal location, set up the romantic spa for two setting in a private room, with hot tubs, and all the trimmings to boot, then you need to “entice” her to give you this one “last” chance and ask her to trust you as you blindfold her prior to driving to the location. Of course, you would have notified the Spa / Wellness centers all that you are planning for your romantic rendezvous.

This will build up immense anticipation over and above earning you brownie points for all the effort you have gone to. Also depending on the weather, time of year etc, you can choose an array of treatments for the two of you ranging from sensuous back and body massages under the blue skies besides the lapping water of the plunge pools, or the heated pools and steam rooms. Whatever the location, the backdrop of mountains, beaches, forests, vineyards etc, all play part of the important intended affect of romance and serious intentions.

It is important to leave the full body and head massages for last and that you each have a glass of champagne or wine prior to these massages. This allows for a little relaxation and lowers any defenses that may still be lurking despite the relaxing environment. Once you have had a little bubbly or wine, then showing a sign of sexy strength, take her hand and lead her to the massage tables. (Obviously you need to find out where they are before hand so you don’t look like an idiot when you get lost).

Ensure you ask the massage therapists to use only the sensuous, relaxing essential massage oils and you need to overwhelm all 5 of her senses. Whilst the two of you are lying on your stomachs with your faces down, you must warm your hands with the same heated sensuous oil and take over from the masseuse. Obviously you are going to have a few little tips prior to doing this so that she doesn’t guess that it is you massaging her straight away. It is important to start at her feet, slowly, no matter how tempted you are at this point because you will find this procedure highly arousing. You continue in a “professional” relaxing way for a while and then you start to subtly modify the massages into a more personal, erotic technique without overstepping the mark or becoming invasive. As this point you start to make your way towards her upper body and massage her shoulders and neck area. At this point, the two of you should be alone in the secluded massage/pamper area and after you have gently and seductively massaged her neck area, you must whisper into her ear, asking her to turn around and face you. The combination of the relaxing oils, massage and effort that you have gone to, should allow her to be highly receptive of your apology as you ask her for another chance. At this point you need to emphasize how by creating this unforgettable experience for her, your intentions are sincere as is your apology. How could she resist?

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at