Re-invent Your Sex Life - Tips from Michael Webb books

Re-invent Your Sex Life

Tips on Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend or Wife Back

Ok so you have got her to agree to a “make up date”, your heartfelt and sincere apology has been accepted, she has agreed to give you one more chance and finally, the cherry on top – has accepted your suggestion of “coffee” at your place.

Moving on from that first “reunion” date, take time for each other whenever possible. Get the idea out of your heads that sex must happen at night in the bedroom. Pretend you are teenagers dating and if you get the opportunity to be intimate with your partner, take it!

Take time out to be romantic again as if you were in the first stages of your relationship. Do all the things you used to take for granted before like opening the car door for her, sending her flowers or surprising her with her favorite meal, delivered in person at lunch time or spontaneously arrive with the meal on her doorstep. It’s the little things that count.

We all know that women are hard to read, saying no when they mean yes, saying they are fine when they’re not and cry for just about any reason under the sun – so approach with caution, listen to what she is saying because they always provide subtle hints to what it is they really do what.

Keep your promises, especially if you have let her down before and whilst you don’t have to promise them the world, if you say you are going to call her back straight away then make sure you do. It is so important to keep your word. You have let her down with trust before, so if you don’t prove your trust with an issue as small as this, rest assured, there is no chance of gaining it in other more important areas.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. Discover all of Micheal Webb Books at the website.

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Tips on Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

It’s Sunday night, 2 weeks after SHE left you. You’re wandering around your apartment like a lost fart in a perfume factory unsure of what to do, how to do it or when for that matter. You miss her so much your insides ache.

Forget about a country posy flower delivery with a weak apology. The flowers will end up in the trash as will the crumpled note that follows. Don’t waste your money this is the time for sweating bullets. Yep, if you want her back it’ll be just as painful, uncharacteristic and involve a complete lifestyle change. This means not only are you going to have to climb insurmountable mountains in the next couple of weeks to charm her back into your life, but you are going to have to do this as part of your natural appeal every day. Yes I said “every day!” Think of it as though you’re “flossing your teeth”. Your wonderful relationship with your dentist ‘Dr Beamish’ plummets as the fillings and caps start to increase. Your “orthodontic relationship” has been compromised and to reverse the ravages of all that “resentful plaque” build-up, you need to floss, not only daily, but after every meal as well.

However, winning her back is not as easy as an orthodontic metaphor! Guaranteed a main issue she had with you was your poor communication and inability to express how you feel, compliment her, notice when she’d had her hair cut or colored, or, how on the rare occasions you took her out (inevitably to some bar that was crowded and noisy), you failed to tell her how beautiful she looked. That is what I mean by communication and then some. So now you have been excommunicated yourself. Do you see where this is going?

Top priority is that you have to re-engage with her in a way that not only blows her socks off with regards to the new, open and “in touch with my feelings” communicable you, but also romancing her in such a way, she is left breathless and unable to resist.

You are going to do whatever it takes, leaving hand written romantic messages in all the unexpected places that she could find them, designed to intrigue and build into orgasmic climax, figuratively of course. No use rushing the goalie posts here! These must be followed up by text messages that are sincere, offer a little bit more intrigue until you finally (over the period of a week) invite her to a romantic venue where you pull out all the stops in your heartfelt apology, your vow to never take her for granted again, and your sincere intention in letting her drive the pace if she would graciously agree to your absolute last chance in showing her how much you love her.

You do this, and more, making sure your plan is well orchestrated and you have thought of everything, and guaranteed she will be yours again. I just have one word of caution. Don’t botch-up again buddy! This time, you say what you mean and you do what you say. If not, you won’t have a snowball’s chance in hell to win her back, EVER!

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice Get Her Back
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Your Manner of Approach

If you're interested in learning how to win HER back, here’s a bit of information that might help. It may not be easy and it might not even work but if you don’t at least try, you will never know. You also need to understand that some relationships are just not meant to work and if that is the case with yours, then don’t even waste your time and effort. Rather look else where for comfort and a new beginning. However, the main objective here is to “win her back” and so this is how we do it.

Firstly, you need to be in control of your emotions. This is not an easy task at present, emotions are running high for both of you, ranging from anger to grief and shock so it is difficult to try and focus. It requires both conscious effort and control and you need to keep your “eye on the ball” as it could be tough, time consuming and sometimes, demoralizing. But if you stay focused, then you have the opportunity to prove to yourself and everybody around you, especially your ex that you're capable to deal with difficult situations.

When staying in control, you have to keep a mind to not retaliate. Most guys retaliate after a breakup and this definitely will make things worse than they already are. “Getting her back” or “making her want you more by making out with her friend” will NOT work. It will only validate her mistrust of you and push her away even further. You need to give your ex time along, avoid contacting her, especially immediately after the break up. This is probably one of the most difficult things to do, but it is necessary and it also gives her a chance to miss you.

The last thing you need to do is “hibernate” as it is often tempting to stay at home along following a rough breakup and but this is the worse thing you could do. Not only will you be seen as weak, but it will exacerbate your situation even further driving home your sense of loneliness. It is important that you stay in touch with your friends and continue to enjoy life. You need to keep yourself busy.

If you want to know how to approach your ex, talk to her friends (if they agree to talk to you), if not, be persistent and let them see you are genuinely regretful. The more information you can gather on your ex’s state of mind and her feelings towards you, the better. Research, organization and preparation hand in hand together with a romantic ambiance, environment, intention or occasion should work hands down any time. Once you have an idea of where her mind is at, you can plan your approach accordingly and design a “come back” strategy that will not only impress her, but “blow her socks off”.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.Discover all of Michael Webb books at the website.